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Судьба человека - его характер


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Жара-то какая. Днем спасают кондиционированные помещения (когда повезет), термальная вода и холодные бутыли Перье. И все в ожидании главной вечерней радости - джин-тоника с лимоном и кубами льда на балконе, где солнцепек сменился нежной вечерней теплынью. 

Мне надо принять как минимум два решения, последствий которых я предвидеть не могу. Типичная развилка, "направо пойдешь - налево пойдешь". Сижу и думаю. Тщетно выискиваю космические подсказки, которых нет вообще. Куда ж, интересно, кривая вывезет?

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ой-ой-ой
смишнооооо
мне показалось "косметические подсказки"

(иронично) очень смешно! тут люди можно сказать мучУются :)

может в церковь сходить?

некрещеная, неверующая.

а интуиция? Вот я, когда выбирала одно из двух предложений, склонялась к первому интуитивно, а в итоге взяла второе - денег побольше, позиция типа карьерно повыше. Интуиция протестовала, но я ее пнула сапогом под зад. Ужасно жалею.

тут слишком mixed feelings, уже путаю интуицию со здравым смыслом.

Я люблю "метод принятия решения".

вот как-то так:

Step One – Identify The Conflict. For example, you may be conflicted about
staying vs. leaving your current relationship or job. So, let’s say you’re thinking
about leaving your girlfriend Rachel, on the top-left you would write, “Reasons to
stay with Rachel” and on the top-right you would put, “Reasons to leave Rachel”.
NOTE: Please don’t let “Rachel” or anybody else find this sheet of
paper! This is between yourself and the Universe. Otherwise, feelings
can get hurt.

Step Two – Fill Out The Left Grid. You have 30 seconds to write down every
value or benefit of STAYING with Rachel (or your current job or life situation).
By actually timing it and going this quickly, you will involve more of the
unconscious mind. Once the 30 seconds are up, take 3 deep breaths to clear your
mind for a moment.

Step Three – Fill Out The Right-Side Grid. You have 30 seconds to write
down every value or benefit of LEAVING Rachel (or your current job or life
situation). Again, once the 30 seconds are up, take 3 deep breaths to clear your
mind for a moment.

Step Four – Return To The Left Side And Rate Each And Every Value
On A Scale From 1 to 10. You have only ten seconds this time. Go and
evaluate each value on the left side of the list and number them from 1 (neutral or
not very important) to 10 (of utmost importance to you at this time). For
example, if Rachel is a good cook, and this is something that’s NOT very
important to you, you might want to place a “1” or a “3” next to that value,
depending on how you feel. On the other hand, if Rachel gives the best blowjobs
you’ve ever had, and that is important to you, then you might place a “7” or even a
“10” if you really value a good blowjob.
Remember, you only have TEN SECONDS to do this. It will involve more of your
subconscious mind or “gut-level” answers. If you do not have time to do it in ten
seconds, then you need to place a ZERO on the remaining values that you didn’t
number. When you are done, take 3 deep breaths to clear your mind.

Step Five – Now Go To The Right Side And Rate Each And Every Value
On A Scale From 1 to 10. It is the same exact procedure that you just did in
step four. Some people get confused here because this side will tend to have
more “negative” values on it. For example, if a reason to leave Rachel is that she
has a bad attitude toward animals, you need to ask yourself how important is it
for you to AVOID this type of attitude towards animals. If it’s just a mild
annoyance, then you might place a low number such as “2” or “4”. On the other
hand, if her attitude towards animals is something that really concerns you on a
core level, then you’d put a much higher number such as “9” or even “10”.
Another example would be if you wrote that leaving Rachel would allow you to
“play the field” again; if “casual sex” is very important to you, then you might use
a high number such as “8”.
Again, you only have ten seconds to do this. After ten seconds has transpired, if
you didn’t have the time to finish, you need to place a ZERO for each remaining
value. When you are done, take 3 deep breaths to clear your mind.

Step Six – Add up the numbers on the Left column first, then go and
add up the numbers on the Right column. What’s the score? If there is a
big difference between both sides, you should have a pretty clear indication of
what CHOICE to make. You will either Leave Rachel or you will Stay with her
(today).

а меня уж вывезло так вывезло :))
подробности позже...

подробности хочу!!!

Два решения в настоящее время как-то между собой связаны? Или могут связаться лишь впоследствии?

нет. одно карьерное, другое семейно-политическое. :)

А ты доверься женской интуиции:) Она не подведет:)

тут, увы, не женские решения.

Ошо Дзен Таро!

мама, ты с кем разговариваешь? :)

Пусть вывезет туда, где тебе будет комфортно и хорошо, вот.

надеюсь там тебя встретить.

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